Old, New, Borrowed & Blue - A few new ideas on an age-old tradition
Written by Meg Hale Brunton
Maybe we don’t believe in all the old superstitions associated with weddings… but who wants to take the chance, right? So, play it safe- Brides, don’t let your groom see you before the ceremony. Never wear black to a wedding. And always include the four pre-prescribed bridal accouterments on your special day. Here are a few new takes on something old, something new, something borrowed and something blue:
Old - A family heirloom is the go-to for this tradition, but what if you don’t have a lot of great hand-me-downs in your family? What about a car? No, not like your uncle’s old beat-up truck. What about renting a fancy vintage car for the day of your wedding to take you to and from the ceremony?
Another idea is to make a patch with a photo printed on it of a loved one who’s passed on and sew that into the lining of your gown. Instead of some knick-knack from the family member, you actually have a picture of them to keep with you.
New - How about new perfume? Often, women overlook perfume since it isn’t clothing, but one does wear it. And what could be more personal? It is literally sprayed on your skin and will be surrounding you all day long. You’ll probably be trying out some new makeup in preparation for your big bridal reveal as you walk down the aisle. It’s a perfect time to find your own signature scent, or change to a new scent that represents you as a married woman.
Or, you could do something clever with your initials. They’re new, right? Maybe order some cute panties with your new initials on them, or sew them into the fabric of your dress. You could even have them painted on your toenails!
Borrowed - If you and your fiance enjoy cooking, I love the idea of asking all of your wedding guests to bring a favorite recipe with them for you to ‘borrow’ in your new lives together. These can be collected into a recipe book that will forever remind you of both your friends and of your wedding.
You could also ask your best friend, or closest relative, to surprise you with something on the day of your wedding that symbolizes the special bond you share. This is a nice way to remember that you’re still connected to them, even after you’ve become someone’s spouse.
Blue - Everyone does a garter. Why not a whole lingerie set in your favorite shade of blue? Underwear is crucial to keeping everything looking perfect and in-place beneath the gown. Don’t throw on your old bra and panties on the day of the wedding, expecting everything to work with the neckline and to not show through the fabric. The underwear should get nearly as much forethought as the dress itself. Keep in mind that it is responsible for keeping you feeling comfortable, beautiful, and sexy on the day of the wedding.
